AFF: Disfunctional or functional  

Nawtyfun4me 50M
23 posts
10/15/2019 8:29 am
AFF: Disfunctional or functional

Does anything function properly on Find adult friendz anymore? It doesn’t seem to me based on my experience (3 paid yrs) that there’s any added value for paying for the service. Would you agree?
Certainly agree AFF sucks
Somewhat agree. I get some value
Totally disagree. AFF is worth every penny!


BiggLala 47F  
27154 posts
10/15/2019 9:01 am

I think 'value' depends on what particular portion of the site you're talking about, and what a members' expectations are. If you mean IM, then no...I wouldn't pay *just* to use that feature...I don't know why anyone would. Additionally, I don't know why someone would pay if they're not going to also invest time and effort into meeting people.

I paid so that I could read profiles and email anyone I wanted without limits. That was worth the 'value' to me. Yes, I joined before they removed standard members ability to reply to messages. Even since then, I find workarounds to many of limitations here.

Yours and others mileage may vary.

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1just4fun61 58M
129 posts
10/15/2019 9:09 am

It's not the site I joined years ago.


seems6666 49F  
2941 posts
10/15/2019 9:25 am

You have one of the best profiles I have ever read, if you seriously want to meet people, and I'm sure quite a few women would like your profile, you need to upgrade and become Gold.
Some parts of the site are crap, the fakes and scammers and IM is really unstable, but at least with gold you won't lose anything except time if IM goes on the wonk, and you can text message too. Also, you can read other profiles so you can contact people with similar interests and likes, instead of randomly messaging women.


Love2licku0279 40M
30 posts
10/15/2019 9:41 am

Can’t say I’ve met a lot of people, but I have met a few and it does help pass the time at work, lol


Mmmmholes 56M
18 posts
10/15/2019 7:56 pm

It's a business..the old business model wasn't making the owner(s) enough money so they changed it.


Superman4695 34M
134 posts
10/15/2019 10:45 pm

Does anyone read anymore? In such a short missive he put a salient piece of info he was a paid member for 3 years.

This isn't going to change anything but yeah if they charge people things should work reasonably well. With software there will always be bugs or misfires but it should function as intended at least 98% of the time.


BiggLala 47F  
27154 posts
10/15/2019 11:03 pm

    Quoting Superman4695:
    Does anyone read anymore? In such a short missive he put a salient piece of info he was a paid member for 3 years.

    This isn't going to change anything but yeah if they charge people things should work reasonably well. With software there will always be bugs or misfires but it should function as intended at least 98% of the time.
I don't know when, but he edited his post. I don't recall that being part of his OP when I commented.

Still, save one person--mostly, people addressed his question of whether we (the readers) find value in a membership. Whether he paid or not is irrelevant.

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bobnuotatore69 50M
1 post
10/16/2019 4:18 pm

the iM is crap, for me is inconceivable that a site where you pay offer a worst feature than many free services


Procoach4 57M
23 posts
10/18/2019 7:58 am

Hi, I love this blog!


OoohFa 50M

10/19/2019 4:36 am

I came here as a suggestion of a friend.....I would like to smack him right now though...the amount of misleading people is astounding. The chat rooms full of false profiles, and cat fishers. Yet.. a f f does nothing about it.
Sure...let an individual make multiple accounts...thumbs up


BlueEyedGuyD 38M
12 posts
10/19/2019 5:04 pm

it sucks and full of fake profiles.


Jformeets 23M
11 posts
10/20/2019 1:51 am

If they treated free members better they would have more people joining as gold members and more recommendations. It all comes down to the 'trial' period for some (on a free membership) once they see the frustrations for others and how difficult they make it, it simply isnt appealing to pay to upgrade. They move on to different sites.

They need to correct the basics in marketing


alexhall_2121 22M
10 posts
10/21/2019 8:51 pm

It's not great tbh


Gary545454 60M
499 posts
10/22/2019 9:07 am

Now they've changed the Blog site so that you can't see all the blogs just a selected few - this place is rapidly deteriorating.


pussylickin4al69 41M
10 posts
10/22/2019 9:29 am

i agree 100 % has really gone down


curiousparty1234 34M
7 posts
10/22/2019 10:19 am

In my experiences since starting the site the quality has gone down, and features are starting to "fail" to work.

The chat used to allow standard members to chat to people they were interested 5, then 3 times (now pay to message anyone) before it started to ask for points to chat to people, and I find that half the time that my messages aren't going through, and people I know that have been trying to contact me aren't getting through as when we finally do connect they ask me why I've been ignoring them.

Then not to mention all the things that now require gold that never did before, things that made little to no difference in the long run. Eg; Seeing who viewed you, friend requests.

It would be nice if they eased up on the needing gold/points for practically everything on the site, especially on the things that don't work 100% of the time (looking at you IM system). Not saying to not restrict standard members, but maybe set more daily limits. Let me use the site to see if I actually want to invest more money into it, then I'll be more likely to do so.


Love2eatpussy404 34M
6 posts
10/22/2019 12:03 pm

Definetly not the same old site


McreadyinLaf 46M
17 posts
10/22/2019 8:30 pm

There is some value to paying for Find adult friendz. As a standard member you cannot communicate hardly at all with other members. The only way, is if you manage to scrounge up some points, because you CAN chat with other member through Find adult friendz Instant Messenger for 12 points, I think it is. But with no points you:
- cannot chat on instant messenger
- cannot answer emails
- cannot view profiles
- cannot flirt with other members
- cannot view member webcams
I'm actually not sure what the point of being a member of Find adult friendz is without paying and not having points, because you can't do shit.
I've survived on points and chatting on Instant Messenger, where a few thing have actually happened leading to hookups. Without that, there would be nothing.


pocogato12 67F  
29869 posts
10/31/2019 2:53 pm

I know the site has drastically changed since I joined. But I have found ways around what doesnt work if I am interested. I ma actively working on getting them to understand that by limiting what the standards can do, they are NOT encouraging folks to upgrade at all. Bad Business practice that needs to by seriously address and
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Frenulus 42M
49 posts
11/6/2019 12:15 pm

I'd never pa for this site


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