The First Time . . .  

aflower2c 45F
6858 posts
2/26/2016 7:20 pm
The First Time . . .

the first time

╰⊰⊹✿ The first time for what?

My first real date?
I am not sure if I ever had one.
Wait, I have had a few good dates.

One with my current casual partner, we had a wonderful meal at a very nice restaurant. And that was over 2.5 yrs ago, but he didn't become my casual until sometime after that date...

So I don't know. What to write about.....

╰⊰⊹✿ First time for what..

Watching the sunset from the top of a mountain... yep been there did that plenty, even from the back of my , or from the tailgate of my truck,
or just a late afternoon hike when I had too much thinkin to do. Sitting there with my beautiful by my side, and my other canine companion - the muscle. I miss them both dearly.

The first time carrying my old off the mountain trail on her very last hike with me.


Watching the sunrise from the porch while sipping some cowboy coffee.
Watching the farm stretch awake in the sunshine., listen to the chickens rush out to forage for the day,
the horses makin their friendly sounds.

Laying in the forest under a grandmother tree,
close my eyes and listen to forest around me.
The chipmunks chittering away, the gray jays laughing softly,
the nuthatch chipping away..the breeze slowly swaying the branches.

Out in the forest, with my faithful companions,
encountering our first angry bear and his freshly caught breakfast.

The first time for getting on a new .
How my nerves where shaking, how he sensed every emotion I had.
Feeling his power under me. Respecting him for allowing me to be there..hoping to hell that he wouldn't toss me into the fence.

The first time watching a foal being born. I am a seasoned midwife to my herd now.
...wouldn't trade a second of it. Same with my cows and hogs...

The warm fuzzy muzzle of my orphan foal
... as he searches for reassurance and comfort.

The first time seeing my , after he left my body. Then having the same strong feeling after my second was born. Loving them everyday and forever.
So many firsts with family.


The first time...well there is always a first time for a new day.

I fell down the rabbit hole before, living each day is easy now, I never said simple...but I enjoy every sunset and sunrise I see, the smiles and laughter from my sons.

The first time eh (how Canadian lol.) not sure what to write about that will bend the mind,
entice the imagination,
that would be full of a whole lot of 2$ words, that would be entertaining for the readers...

╰⊰⊹✿ So lets see...

What kind of firsts have I had that are worth remembering

Snowflakes and a hot spring
Laying under the stars, in the arms of a lover
Sex on a mountainside in hot sun
A moonlit dinner on the lake
☾ ☆

My first strapon playtime, then giving a few firsts
My first first subspace
The first swingers party
My first time with prostate play and milking, then giving a few firsts

Holding his hand while out on a hike
that contented sigh, and a snuggle in - that is intimacy to me, each and every time...

Genuine laughter, seeing his smile, that twinkle in his eye

╰⊰⊹✿ hmm... anything else...

The first time I was very attracted to men in their 40's
then when realized that it will never work out, as they are not attracted to women of my vintage... (personal experiences)

I have a few firsts that I want to get off my list this year
~ MFM with a partner,
~ even a scene with MMF and my strapon
~ A 10" cock (not one of my toys, and not attached to even a bigger dick)
~ Sex under a full moon
~ a full body massage and hot n hard sex to finish...
~ Explore more BDSM...more sex...another partner or two...
More pegging, more prostate play, more F/m,...

Looking to gain this thin body back, only a few lbs left to go
Its not a first, but it will be a big first for me being in my 40's and trying to stay desirable
Still hoping to attract the attention of wonderful men...
And then to hand out a few firsts to them

..... So lets see...what to write about ...

Everyday is full of firsts. Live it with laughter and genuine smiles

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CookiesNMischief 33M  
2928 posts
2/26/2016 8:00 pm

- You've lived it like you've owned it, and there are still a lot ,ore "firsts" to go...hope you get to cross them off the list soon enough...

aflower2c replies on 2/26/2016 8:32 pm:
I will be working on that list for sure this year!

AmorphousAmor 61M
3514 posts
2/26/2016 8:09 pm

The second encounter is always the more telling one

aflower2c replies on 2/26/2016 8:33 pm:
Yes, when the connection is right

s2ndegree 60M  
9522 posts
2/26/2016 8:43 pm

Very nicely done!

Using more than all the road!

aflower2c replies on 2/26/2016 8:45 pm:
Thanks...still not sure what to write on

kzoopair 68M/66F  
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2/26/2016 10:00 pm

Just wonderful. Thanks.

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aflower2c replies on 2/26/2016 10:34 pm:

khuXBFXM8u 57M
10308 posts
2/27/2016 6:56 am

Nice take on the topic.

Maybe you have already attracted the attention of wonderful men... I 'd like to think one anyway.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure

aflower2c replies on 2/27/2016 7:33 am:
Thanks for stopping by and reading up on my VS

Annie_34 61T
5917 posts
2/27/2016 7:43 am

Bonjour Aflower.
Tout les jours sont comme le premier jour . Tout les jours on apprend de nouvelle chose .
♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥

Hello A Flower.
Every day is like the first day. Every day we learn something new.
♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥

Notre vie est un voyage-♦-Dans l'hiver et dans la nuit
Nous cherchons notre passage-♦-Dans le ciel où rien ne luit .

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aflower2c replies on 2/27/2016 8:32 am:
Yes. Every day is a new day to make a change, to laugh, to love, to live

spunkycumfun 59M/64F  
36125 posts
2/28/2016 6:43 am

That's the great thing about first times is that there's always lots more other first times to experience!

aflower2c replies on 2/28/2016 8:29 am:
Every mornin is a first, you will never get to live this day again

HermanG67 52M
7840 posts
2/28/2016 10:17 am

great post

aflower2c replies on 2/28/2016 10:24 am:

missthee 53F  
4007 posts
2/28/2016 6:10 pm

Great post, appreciate how you bring all these seemingly disparate experiences together in one list.

aflower2c replies on 2/28/2016 6:58 pm:
a lifetime in a few words

KItkat1415 57F  
19815 posts
2/28/2016 9:18 pm

You know you are desirable no matter what you weigh... just saying.
Great post,

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JDC_41 57M
1333 posts
3/1/2016 11:18 pm

So many nice first times. I understand it was hard to select one.
And no worry, you do attract attention of men (at least one more just now).
And I can tell you that you are strongly desirable, not only according to the pictures of you but also (and it is more important to me) by your writings...

aflower2c replies on 3/2/2016 9:42 am:
Thanks on the writings

passionateaction 50M
1576 posts
3/3/2016 12:53 pm

Every time we do something for the first (time) we find another first to do

aflower2c replies on 3/3/2016 1:14 pm:
It's always a first time with someone new

humorlife 114M
5719 posts
3/25/2016 9:54 am

It's interesting to note how many of your treasured first involve non-humans (and then there are the ones with your young 'uns, of course)...

Beyond that, your list of firsts encompasses the realm of the senses, and the sensuous. And your capping your post with a list of desired firsts isn't something I've seen a lot of symposium bloggers do. Well done! May you realize 'em all, and add new ones to the list!

Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic

aflower2c replies on 5/24/2016 9:22 am:
As a hedonist I am always looking for pleasure of the senses
My new list looks daunting at this point, and I may have to go about it in a different way obviously it will not be the same type of experience...but at least I can broaden my horizon

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